yep, there's currently no way to make a standalone package out of a vvvv project, the people you're giving your patch to will have to have vvvv and dependencies you might use installed.
what you could do to make things more convenient is to provide a .bat file that starts your project with the
/shutup parameter so that the patch window does not appear, only renderers will be displayed (if that's coherent with your usecase of course).
see this page for informations on command line parameters
also, pay attention to the fact that you must have a clean project structure with all your subpatches and assets so that the people opening your patch will have them too.